Self-care is often perceived as a luxury and not a necessity. When we think of "self-care" we think of pampering, salons, shopping, etc. We simply think of the aesthetic of self-care. In reality, self-care is much more real. Did you remember to eat? Did you sleep enough? Have you moved enough today? Do you have balance in your life? Self-care is not glamorous, fun, or cute.
Without proper self-care, you will experience burnout.
I am currently on a self-care journey. I am using Maslow's Hierarchy of needs as my guide. Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is a psychological theory that organizes human needs into a pyramid. Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs argues that a higher level of needs can only be fulfilled once lower-level needs are met. The foundation of the pyramid consists of physiological needs.
Physiological needs:
- Regular Exercise
- Sufficient Sleep
- Nourishing Meals
- Work-Life Balance
I am currently working on the foundation of my needs. One thing I find myself sacrificing regularly is sleep. As a nurse, I work 12+ hour shifts, I have a teenage child, a husband who lives in a different state, and all the other social demands you likely also have.
Sleep empowers us to face each day revitalized and resilient.
When we sleep our bodies repair and rejuvenate, and we wake up feeling refreshed and energized. Getting enough sleep improves our health and well-being. When we prioritize sleep we are ready to face the demands of a busy life.
What are the health benefits of sufficient sleep?
Improves Mood
While sleeping our bodies will relax and recover from the stressful day. If we do not get enough sleep the body will release stress hormones which will likely cause irritability the next day, or until we get enough sleep.
Heart Health
While sleeping our heart rates slow down and blood pressure decreases, which allows the heart to rest. Inadequate sleep increases the risk of cardiovascular events including heart disease, heart attacks, and heart failure.
Improved Brain Function
Getting too little sleep causes you to have difficulty focusing and retaining new information.
Restores Immune System
When we are sleeping our bodies fight infection and inflammation with proteins, antibodies, and immune cells.
Helps Maintain a healthy weight
Adequate sleep can help control appetite, not getting enough sleep can disrupt the hormones that control your appetite.
When we get sufficient sleep, we are giving our bodies the care and attention they need by allowing our body and mind to rest and rejuvenate.
How to get enough sleep?
Establish a consistent sleep schedule
Every day, yes, every day wake up and go to bed at the same time. I know we all love to sleep in on Saturday morning. It's time to stop! It affects your sleep schedule for the rest of the week.
Create a calming bedtime routine
I cannot tell you what is "calming" to you. Every night you should have a routine, brushing your teeth, removing make-up, taking a warm bath, journaling, or reading a book. The options are endless, but the most important thing is it relaxes you, and you stay consistent.
Optimize your sleep environment
This is another one I can't tell you exactly, we are all different. But creating the environment you sleep the best is what is important. Making the room dark, adjusting the temperature to your optimal temperature, and cleaning up your room are just some ideas.
Limit screen time before bed
All screens emit blue light, which prohibits our bodies from producing the sleep hormone, melatonin, and makes it difficult to sleep. So yes, turn off the screens, ALL screens.
Exercise during the day
Exercise during the day can help improve the quality of sleep. Regular exercise decreases stress, and increases overall tiredness It is important to avoid extreme exercise close to bedtime, because it can have the opposite effect and make it harder to fall asleep.
Prioritizing sleep is extremely important for our overall health and well-being. When we get enough quality sleep, our mood and brain function improves, our immune system restores, hormones regulate, and our whole body can rejuvenate.
We get better quality sleep when we establish a consistent bedtime routine, with a calming and relaxing environment.
It is time to prioritize ourselves, and our body's needs. It is okey to go to bed at a reasonable hour. It is okey to allow your body to rest and rejuvenate. It is okey to say "I am important, too!"
It is OKEY!